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What’s the best Feng Shui artwork? Depends on you!

Saturday, February 18th, 2012

In a Feng Shui consultation clients will often be ready to move their furniture around to change out the energy of their spaces.  They may be eager to paint, or change the layout of a room or even its purpose but sometimes they’re surprised when I ask them to tell me about their artwork.   What’s the best Feng Shui artwork?  It depends on you.  What’s on the walls is as important as what is in the room.

Couple kissing

A couple kissing is a great painting for a master bedroom.

Here’s what we know about Feng Shui:  all things are alive with energy, all things are connected and all things are constantly changing.  Your artwork, along with your furnishings and accessories, is connected to you and reflects who you are.  Another way of saying this in Feng Shui lingo is:  environment mirrors consciousness.  Artwork speaks loudly and says a lot about you.   Here are some responses I’ve heard when I’ve asked clients to tell me about a particular piece of art:

  • My mom gave it to me when I was a kid.
  • I put that there because it fits.
  • The colors match my couch.
  • It was there from the last tenant.
  • I don’t know what it’s doing there.
  • I’ve never liked it but I don’t have anything else to put there.
  • The salesperson said it would look good.

Sound familiar?  Most people have art on the wall that the above could be said about!

Your home is your sanctuary.  You get to decide what you live with, what you love and what you want out of life.  Your home and environment can help you reflect out to the world who you are and want to be, not who a family member or a salesperson thinks you are.   Here’s what to do:  select and display art that

  • Makes your heart glad
  • You selected for the space (even if it’s a gift, you don’t have to display it)
  • Reflects who you are and/or want to become
  • Fits the space
  • Holds intention

That piece of art your mom gave you may still make you happy or you may have outgrown it – only you know the answer to that question.  If it no longer serves you, give it away to someone who will appreciate it, or put it in the guest room so it can make her glad when she visits.  It makes sense to place artwork that fits a space but make sure that the piece also fits you! A classic Feng Shui example of artwork not mirroring intention is when a single man or woman, who wants to have a life partner, displays art that showcases one person instead of two. And, be emboldened to put some art away and leave other pieces out; move art around and change it out to suit your nature, the seasons, or simply to be able to see it again.  Sometimes when something has been displayed in the same place for a while we no longer notice it – a recipe for stagnant energy.

Feng Shui reminds us to not only to be conscious of our surroundings but also to connect to them; be healthy, peaceful, balanced and joyful in them.   Does your artwork make you feel that way?

Celebrate a Feng Shui Valentine’s Day all month long!

Monday, February 13th, 2012

Who doesn’t need a little boost in the Love Department?  Practically all of us do and with Feng Shui, it’s easy.  Whether you’re looking for love, nurturing new love, or energizing mature love, you can use Feng Shui to create some energy around your goal.

Feng Shui is based on three important beliefs:  all things are alive with energy, all things are connected and all things are constantly changing.  We take these beliefs and use them in practical ways to create the lives we want.  Hence, we move things around in our physical lives (e.g., artwork, furniture, bikes, lamps that are alive with energy) to impact our emotional lives.   We are connected to our things and our spaces and we can change them around.  When it comes to enhancing love, Feng Shui gives us lots of options.

Two hearts equal love

Here are a just a few ideas:

  • Place things in twos around your home to remind you of your “coupledom” – it can be two candles on a mantelpiece; two vases with flowers on your table, two ceramic figures on a shelf, two chairs by the fireplace, two birdhouses in a tree.  You get my drift here:  the intention is two and the physical space holds two.
  • What if you’re not currently in a relationship?  Do the above anyway – if your intention is being in a relationship.
  • Look around your space and make sure that there is room for two – e.g., two bedside tables in your master bedroom, two stools at the bar, space for two in your closet.  Sometimes clients will tell me that they want to be in a relationship and their home is so packed with stuff there’s no room for another person.
  • Love is supported by the Fire element – use the colors of fire (reds and oranges), the shape of the pyramid, photos of your loved one and animal prints to spice things up.
  • When using the bagua, Feng Shui’s treasure map of your space, you’ll find the Love & Marriage area of your home in the upper right hand corner from your front door.   The Love & Marriage area is also supported by the Earth element – earth-toned colors, the shape of the square or rectangle and things made of earth, such as ceramics.   Two terra cotta birds sitting on a windowsill would work well here and here’s why:  you’d be using animals (Fire element) in a pair (two), made of earth, in an earthy color sitting in a rectangular window (Earth element x 3)!
  • When laying the bagua remember that all areas under the roofline belong inside it, which means for many homes there is an attached garage in one of the bagua areas.   I know what this is like because in my home, the Love & Marriage area is in my attached garage!  In order to enhance this area I keep it very de-cluttered (no stuck energy), and we’ve hung our bicycles and fiery orange kayaks on the wall together.

With Feng Shui, there is always more than one way to change or enhance a space and you can usually use what you have on hand!  It’s simple to try, so boost up your love energy during the month of February and enjoy the good vibes.  Happy Feng Shui Valentine’s Day!

A Feng Shui valentine – a unique gift to give and receive!

Monday, February 6th, 2012

Enhance your romance with a Thriving Spaces Feng Shui Valentine:  a 2-hour Feng Shui consultation with a focus on the love quadrants of your spaces, and a Feng Shui gift in celebration of your special valentine.  This Valentine’s Day 2012 promotion is $125 and includes the 2-hour Feng Shui consultation (a 20% discount) and “romance review” of your space along with a 2012 calendar of Feng Shui tips anda special Feng Shui valentine gift.  Give this to a loved one, or consider giving it to yourself – to boost the romance in your life!  This promotion is good through February 29, 2012; of course, once purchased, the consultation can be scheduled whenever it is convenient for you (there is no expiration date.)

Placing things in twos enhances romance!

Valentine’s Day is just that:  one day to celebrate love but a Thriving Spaces Feng Shui Valentine gift consultation can enhance your romance for a lifetime!  For more information, please contact lwgrillo@thrivingspaces.com.

In Feng Shui, environment affects us: witness the palm tree vs the garbage dump

Sunday, January 29th, 2012

I often use photos in my workshops to illustrate Feng Shui principles.  Two of my favorites are of the palm tree and the garbage dump.  I ask my students to imagine standing on the edge of a beautiful empty beach framed by a palm tree or standing on the edge of a large garbage dump. “Do you feel different in each of these environments?,”  I ask them.  Ah, yeah, is the usual response.  That’s because according to Feng Shui principles everything is alive with energy, everything is connected and everything is changing.  We are connected energetically to our environments by how we feel in them, what we do in them, how we interact with them and what could happen when we are there.   And, if we don’t like those environments – like that garbage dump – we can change them.

Palm tree frames beach

 

My workshop illustration came to life for me when my family and I visited southern California a few weeks back. We collected our bags at the airport and stepped outside into the warm air after leaving cold Denver two hours before and were greeted by a long row of palm trees.   I literally gasped with joy.  Another way of thinking about being connected to our environments is to imagine them talking to us, and boy, do I love what palm trees have to say to me:  Lorrie, you’re on VACATION!

Little did I know that we were on our way to a garbage dump.

Garbage dump

No, we did not actually visit a garbage dump so I could make a point to my family about Feng Shui (they would not have appreciated that.)   But we did visit a place where the over-consumption of modern life littered the landscape for as far as the eye could see:  we were stopped in traffic on the 405.  Eight lanes of cars laid out bumper-to-bumper inching along in both directions.  Ok, so the 405 is not a garbage dump per se (the cars were way too nice, for one thing) but certainly our environment was no longer saying vacation, at least until we got to our hotel and jumped into the pool.

Environment mirrors consciousness because we are so connected to what surrounds us.  You can choose how you feel in your environment by placing things in your everyday spaces to create the energy you want.   Look around you right now to see and “hear” what your environment is saying to you.  And here’s a metaphorical question:  Are you standing on a beach or standing next to a garbage dump?  A messy desk can feel like a dumping site.  An organized space framed with a few things you love can feel like a space open to possibilities, maybe a little like an open beach framed by palm trees.   Feng Shui reminds us that when we carefully choose what surrounds us we can create a personal paradise in our homes and workspaces.

Feng Shui also says when you find yourself stuck, whether its in traffic or life, remember that everything is changing and just like me on the 405, when you keep your eye on your goal and use your environment to help you, you’ll get there eventually.

 

 

Feng Shui tips for the New Year. Good-bye 2011; hello 2012!

Saturday, December 31st, 2011

It’s December 31st; what are you doing to prepare for the New Year?  For Feng Shui practitioners, today is all about moving energy and making room for the new –new goals, new projects, and all the new stuff you got as gifts!  Here are my Feng Shui tips for the New Year:

1.  As a Christmas celebrant and decorator, I have enjoyed my tree and various holiday decorations for the past three weeks and now I’m ready for them to be put away. Today is the day!  This process is always bittersweet as ornaments are wrapped and put away and some have accidents.   For example, Gingerbread Man, who starred in this blog a few weeks ago, broke into pieces when I took him off the tree.  (Thank goodness I took a photo of him for this blog!)

2.  Did you already put all your gifts away or are they still tucked into various corners of your living room?  Make sure they’re out of their boxes (which can be recycled!) and onto your shelves.  Need to make room?  This is the perfect time to weed out those old toys, books, clothes, and doodads to make room for all the new.

3.  Are you celebrating tonight?  Then you need to  . . . (did you think I was going to say “take a nap?”)  EXERCISE!  Yep, no better way to move some energy than to exercise – take a walk, a yoga class, or simply dance around your house to music while you put decorations away.  In a paradox that no one understands, actually using energy in the form of exercise gives you more energy.  All right, maybe physiologists understand this but I’ve always just thought it was magic!

4.  Do some “thank yous” – in note form, a phone call, or even electronic.  (I can imagine my children saying, “What?  Electronic?!.”)  I made them write thank you notes for years and sometimes it could take months to get them mailed out.  I’m a little more flexible these days and I truly believe a heartfelt thank you can be shared in so many different ways.  Isn’t it more important to get more gratitude out into the world, faster?   I received a texted photo of the new boots my daughter purchased with her Christmas money along with LOVE MY BOOTS. THANK YOU, MAMA.   It was immediate, came with a photo of the gift and a note; works for me.

Sweep!

5.  Sweep!  How I love to sweep on December 31st!  I am not only sweeping out the dirt and dust and flecks of holiday paper and bits, but I’m sweeping away all the rue and regret of things not accomplished last year.  While I sweep I remember to be grateful to have a home to take care of, a family to love, friends to share my life with, work that makes my heart glad.  I sweep the dust out the back door, then I go to my front door, open it wide and breath in that fresh New Year.

Happy 2012 everyone!