Easy Feng Shui

Feng Shui bed placement and other guest room ideas!

Friday, November 25th, 2011

If you are lucky, you will have guests coming and going over the next six weeks blessing your home with love and laughter, great conversation, fabulous food and gifts.  Feng Shui principles can help you prepare for them and keep your home running smoothly.   With Feng Shui, we’re always looking to make our spaces safe, comfortable and harmonious.  We know that all things are alive with energy, connected and changing and that small adjustments can often reap exactly the change we’re hoping for.  Let’s apply our principles to the influx of holiday guests!

1.  Look at your guest room through Feng Shui eyes and ask yourself these questions:  Is the bed placed in a correct position — across or away from the door, not next to it — for maximum relaxation?  Is there one bedside table for a twin bed set-up and two for a double or queen bed?  Is there enough light for reading as well as a night light for finding the way to the hall bath?  Are there places to store suitcases and/or some empty bureau drawers and closet space for their clothing?   Are all things up off the floor and in their proper place?  Tissues, bottles of water, ibuprofen, and even some packaged snacks will all be welcome in the space.   Fresh sheets and towels are a must.  Clap in the corners before they arrive to “wake up” the room for them.  

2.  If your guest room also houses an office there are some ways to minimize the conflict of room use.  Set up house rules for using the space, for example, if the office-space user must work during the day, have a set time for all work to be put away out of sight prior the guests using the room.  A folding screen is a great way to separate the spaces and their uses.  Make sure faxes and phone ringers are turned off so as not to wake guests during the night.  Be sure to cover all electronics that may be “always on”, like computer printers, or simply unplug them. Putting the office to “sleep” at the end of the day will help to quiet the energy for the guest.

3.  What if the guests are taking over one of your children’s rooms?  Now your job is to ready the room for your guests and to identify a space for your child’s “room” for the duration of the stay.  Have your child welcome the guest to “their” room and show them around – where the light switch is, which drawers they can use, etc.  It’s very important to keep the floor clear of all toys and clothing. Energy gets stuck in anything on the floor and will make it difficult to rest in the room.  Change out the Superman sheets for something plain and calming.  Have fun arranging a space for your child to stay in, whether it’s under the stairs, like Harry Potter, or with a sibling.

4.  Now that you’re making physical space for your guests to sleep and rest, make space in the coat closet for their outerwear and for their special food needs in your pantry.   When you arrange the environment for your guests you invite welcoming energy into your home.

5.  Use your fine china and crystal.  Get out the vases, platters and cookie jars that your guests may have even given you in the past!    Having guests is a special occasion – celebrate them with your fine dishware.

6.  When this set of guests leaves, after washing the sheets and towels, you may wish to place a round, glass bowl of sea salt in the room to cleanse the air and refresh the energy for your next set of guests. The salt will absorb and purify the energy of the room.  Leave the salt in the room for 24 hours, then rinse the bowl and pour the salt water down the drain.  Open the windows for a few hours, too.   The room should be fresh and ready for your next guests.

Prepare for your guests this holiday season.   They’ll notice the difference and so will you!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Feng Shui luck: make your own!

Thursday, November 10th, 2011

Recently, when speaking about Feng Shui at one of our local library branches, an audience member asked a question that struck a chord:  “We’ve had a string of bad luck lately.  What can we do, right now, to change our luck?”  It’s a great question because most of us have experienced what feels like a string of bad luck at some point in our lives.  In fact, many heads were bobbing in agreement.  Like many good questions (and I count this as a good one for just this reason) it was asked in a way that held the answer.

When you ask what can we do, or what can I do, you are acknowledging your own power over your circumstances because you can do something about it!  In fact, research about luck, says just this:  you can improve your odds in life by understanding the difference between chance and luck.  Something that’s left up to chance is something we have no control over. But luck is something you can create by reviewing options, trying new things, changing your attitudes, being open to new possibilities.   Richard Wiseman, psychologist and researcher at the University of Hertfordshire in England has studied luck and written about it:  The Luck Factor:  Change Your Luck, Change Your Life. He believes so strongly that luck can be taught that he even runs a program called Luck School!

We don’t have to go to school, because we have Feng Shui luck — we know that we can change our environments to help us change our lives.  Here’s how to change your luck using Feng Shui:  (and this is what I told my audience)

  • Look for places in your home where energy is stuck and unstick it!  Piles of papers or clothing or dishes can slow or stop positive energy from flowing.  Make sure doors and windows can open fully. And, get things off the floor!

    Energy is stuck in all the piles!

  • Fix broken things or get rid of them.  Bad luck can be equated with things being broken.  When you fix things or remove them you’re taking control of the broken aspects of your luck.  Feng Shui can be very literal!
  • Often bad luck mirrors issues with our Wealth & Prosperity.  Look at this bagua area of your home and make sure it’s clean, well lit, and holds items that say abundance to you (a gold box, a beautiful painting with reds, blues and/or purples, a photo of you and your family on one of your best vacations, etc.).  Put some coins in a dish – Chinese coins (round with a square center) are powerful, but any coins will work.  If your Wealth & Prosperity area is missing (it is in my home, for example) make sure wherever it’s located on your property that it is enhanced with a statue or a birdhouse or something that brings energy to the space.  (This area is in the left-hand corner of your home as your standing at your front door.  See below.)

    Chinese coins are said to bring good luck!

  • Review your level of integrity with your work, whether it’s inside or outside the home.  The Fame & Reputation bagua area is adjacent (on the right) to the Wealth & Prosperity area.  How can our Wealth change if we’re not honest and above board with all things pertaining to money, integrity and our work in the world?  Enhance this area with fire energy – the color red, the shape of the pyramid, or animal prints.  Stick that thank you note on the refrigerator that was sent by your child’s teacher; it’s ok to showcase your good works, especially here.

Simply getting started with changing your environment should activate positive energy.   Good luck!

(For information about the bagua, click the Feng Shui tab on my website.  In general, when placing the bagua over your floor plan, put your front door somewhere along the entrance quadrant of the bagua – Knowledge & Self-Cultivation, Career/Journey and Helpful People & Travel and align your home so that everything under the roof line is included in the rectangle of the bagua.)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Feng Shui Your Kitchen Countertops for an Instant Energy Boost!

Thursday, March 10th, 2011

Recently I had the pleasure of changing out the energy in a friend’s kitchen – by simply applying Feng Shui principles to her countertops!  We changed out the energy in about an hour.   Do you have an hour?  Here’s how you can do the same:

Start by surveying your counter spaces and asking yourself for each item:  do I use it on a daily basis? If the answer is yes, the item gets to stay; if no, then you have some additional questions to ask yourself about how often you use the item and whether or not it continues to serve you in your kitchen.   In the case of my friend’s kitchen a large microwave oven, which she seldom used, was situated on her counter.  (It’s going to Goodwill, since she has a built-in over her oven.)

Microwave oven that isn't used taking up counter space.

Once every item on your counter has gone through the test, there could be items you need to find storage for.  In Feng Shui, the inside of the cupboards is an important as what you can see on the outside on the counters, but the inside of your cupboards may take you more than our allotted hour!   In the example of my friend’s kitchen we did work on one cupboard – by changing the height of her shelves we made space for olive oils and vinegars that were too “tall” for the shelf spaces.  Once we lifted the bottom shelf and adjusted the middle and top shelves we found plenty of room to store the bottles she didn’t use daily.

Kitchen counter cluttered with bottles

Next, look at the art, plants and other things taking up space on your counters – do they still fit who you are, do you use them, are they broken?  In the case of my friend’s kitchen we found a very funny picture of a woman drinking coffee with her feet up on a kitchen counter covered with a mess of children’s artwork, old dishes, newspapers, etc.  This picture had been given to her when her kids were toddlers and life was hectic.  With both my friend’s children launched in college and not living at home, plus her desire and willingness to keep the mayhem at bay, this picture very much no longer served who she is today!   It’s gone.  We also removed the broken clock radio that no longer told time but had a working radio.   She’s getting a new clock radio .

Broken clock radio and humorous photo of messy kitchen!

Allow yourself the time to live with your creative chaos while clearing your counter tops.  We used the island in her kitchen to put anything we were unsure of.  The space became crowded and messy – but we knew we wouldn’t leave it that way. Once the counters were cleared and arranged with items she uses daily, she could see and feel a different energy.  Then it became easy to take care of the “discarded” items on the kitchen island.  There was no way any of them were going to go back to their old spots now that the kitchen felt so good.

Energy flow where the old microwave was!

Here’s what she had to say:  “I LOVE my “new” kitchen.  It’s so much easier to clean and keep clean.  I want to spend time in here.  I even invited friends over for dinner.”

An hour of Feng Shui can change your kitchen, too!

Only bottles she needs, plus items she loves!

Decluttered; no more broken radio or picture of messy kitchen!

Feng Shui Metal Energy Helps with Clear Thinking

Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

This round silver tray and tea set enhance Metal energy!

I’ve been writing about the Feng Shui elements as they express in our environments.  Everything is made up these elements and their interaction and change is part of the flow of Feng Shui.  This change is constant in our natural world.  We can control the elements in our environment to support our wishes and goals.  The principles of Feng Shui and the use of the elements help us to achieve those goals.  The Five Elements of Feng Shui are Fire, Earth, Metal, Water and Wood.  They are listed in this order to show how the Elements “feed” and support the next, for example, Fire makes Earth.  We know this to be true as we see the ash when the fire cools.  Earth, when pressed down, makes Metal.  Metal, when molded, holds Water.  And, Water, is essential for plant growth, or Wood.  What feeds a fire?  Wood, of course; and the circle is complete.  Just as the elements can support each other, they can also be used to control each other when one element overwhelms.  This month’s Element is Metal. 

Metal energy is expressed in our environments as objects, as a shape and a color.  Of course, it makes sense that metal energy would be expressed in metal objects – those made from iron, gold, silver, stainless steel, aluminum, copper and chrome.  So, yes, your stainless steel refrigerator holds metal energy.  Many stones also express as metal – diamonds, granite, travertine, turquoise, quartz and marble are some examples.   Metal energy is also expressed in the shape of the circle, sphere, oval or arch.  Lastly, metal energy is seen and felt in white, grays and pale colors.

What does metal energy do for us?  How does it make us feel in our environments?  Let me give you an example:  imagine walking under a large marble arch into space with pale stone walls and a marble floor and rounded windows.  Yes, you are in a church – a perfect example of metal energy.  Metal energy relates to the intellect and to inward movement and deep understanding.  Most churches have a lot of metal energy which supports the purpose of the space ideally.  Metal energy is organized, it’s focused, structured, logical; it follows rules and laws.  Too much metal can be overly disciplined, rigid and rule bound, though.  What controls too much metal energy?  Fire does – as it melts metal.  Many churches have red cushions on their pews as well as using candles in their services – a perfect way to control overwhelming metal energy which allows congregants to relax in the space. 

What about too little metal energy?  That creates resistance to authority and rules, makes us feel scattered and disorganized.  Imagine a wooden desk (wood object) covered with paper (made from wood pulp)?  Now place that desk in an office with wood floors, a tall tree in the corner and wood shelves.  Metal energy can be used to cut this wood energy:  a metal in/out basket for the papers, a large round white floor lamp arching over the desk, a pale, round rug underneath and possibly a shorter plant!   Get the idea?  We can use the elements to balance our spaces.

Soon it will be time to talk about some Feng shui tips for the holidays!    Until then, I’ll be working on the Sudoku every night sitting at my round, white kitchen table – I can use all the mental help I can get from my Metal energy!

Feng Shui for the mind: clearing mental clutter

Thursday, March 25th, 2010

Principles of Feng Shui are usually applied to external spaces, but you can use them on internal spaces, too, like clearing mental clutter.   What do we know about clutter from Feng Shui?  It rushes and depletes energy; it blurs focus; it confuses and obscures.  All the things that clutter does to energy in our homes and offices, it does in our brains, too.  

 If you wonder whether you suffer from mental clutter, ask yourself if this has ever happened to you: 

  • Thinking about a problem or rehashing a conversation while driving to your destination and arriving only to realize that you don’t remember anything about the drive at all!
  • Doing the laundry while cooking dinner only to walk into the kitchen with an armload of folded clothes to find an open refrigerator door and soup boiling over. 
  • Talking on the phone while driving and missing your turnoff.

Three for three?  Read on. 

When did multi-tasking become a badge of honor in our culture?  Brain scientists tell us that multi-tasking is a misnomer – we are not equipped to do more than one thing at a time and yet we have convinced ourselves that not only CAN we multi-task, but we SHOULD multi-task.  In fact, multi-tasking is considered the expressway to high achievement!  Alas, a uni-tasker is simply, a slacker.

I beg to differ.  I’ve been a self-proclaimed-and-proud-of-it uni-tasker going on six years.  I gave up multi-tasking on a memorable birthday much to the chagrin of my family, who were convinced I wouldn’t be able to do it, and then they were upset when I only focused on one person at a time and later banned texting at the table.  Here’s the upshot:  I get more done in less time and am happier with the results of my efforts than when I was a multi-tasker.  Plus, we talk to each at the table. 

Feng shui supports this finding.  A traditional Feng Shui saying:  “Energy goes where the eye goes,” helps everyone understand the energy of a cluttered space.   It’s hard to know where to begin to clear a cluttered space because the eye bounces from one pile to another.  You must start with one item and decide where to put it.  Soon, one item at a time – the space will be clear; the energy will gently flow through again, and you’ll actually feel your nervous system relax.  It’s the same with your mental clutter.  You must start with one thought or idea and figure out what to do with it.  Schedule a time to think about that problem.  Rehash a conversation if you’re going to actually speak to the other person – and schedule a time to do that.  Drive – and really look at the road, your fellow travelers in other cars and the speed limit.   Fold the laundry.  Cook dinner.  You’ll be amazed how much time you’ll actually save!  Put the phone in the back seat while you’re driving.  You’ll hear it ring and know to look at your calls when you arrive.  Experience the clarity of your present. 

Life was not meant to be a balancing act on a high wire; but we can find balance. Use your Feng Shui point-of-view to not only look at the clutter in your home or office, but in your mind as well. 

Happy uni-tasking!